There are many unwritten social rules that vary depending on the culture, community, and situation. Here are some general ones that are commonly expected in most societies:
- Say “please” and “thank you” when asking for or receiving something.
- Cover your mouth when you cough or sneeze.
- Respect personal space and boundaries of others.
- Do not interrupt someone when they are speaking.
- Use polite language and avoid swearing in formal settings.
- Do not speak loudly on the phone or in public places.
- Queue up or wait your turn in line.
- Offer your seat to an elderly, pregnant, or disabled person.
- Dress appropriately for the occasion or setting.
- Be punctual and arrive on time for appointments and events.
- Avoid talking about controversial or sensitive topics such as politics or religion in polite company.
- Hold the door open for others.
- Say “excuse me” when trying to get someone’s attention or moving past them.
- Do not double dip or put your fingers in a shared food dish.
- Do not talk with your mouth full.
- Respect people’s personal space and avoid standing too close to them, especially if you don’t know them well.
- Don’t talk about other people behind their backs.
- Apologize if you accidentally bump into someone or make a mistake that affects them.
- Avoid using your phone or other electronic devices during face-to-face conversations or meetings.
- When someone is telling you a story or sharing something important, actively listen and show interest.
- Don’t assume someone’s gender, race, or sexual orientation based on their appearance.
- Respect other people’s opinions, even if you don’t agree with them.
- Don’t make assumptions about someone’s financial situation, education level, or social status.
- When dining with others, wait until everyone is served before starting to eat.
- Don’t take up more than your fair share of space in public areas, such as on public transportation or in a crowded elevator.
Again, keep in mind that these unwritten social rules may vary depending on the culture, community, and situation. It’s always a good idea to observe and follow the behavior of those around you, and to ask for clarification if you’re unsure about a specific rule.
